When will dating stop being so hard for Gen Z?

Then it’d come—the rejection, sharp and merciless, cutting through the smoky haze of the room like a knife through your soul. But that wasn’t the worst part, oh no. The worst part was the *spectacle*. Her friends would swoop in like vultures, eyes gleaming, ready to eviscerate what little was left of you. You weren’t just rejected; you were a public execution.

That’s the gauntlet we came from—the crucible of humiliation and raw, unfiltered chaos. The one we survived.

And let’s say, by some unholy miracle, you got her number. Don’t start celebrating yet, cowboy—you were still deep in the trenches.

If everyone hates censorship so much, why do those “censorship-free” alternative social media sites always fail?

Too soon, and you’d look desperate.

They ask for advice, and there’s no jealousy poisoning the well.

Wait too long, and she’d forget you even existed.

Is it true that most women like alpha males?

And let me tell you, fathers in those days weren’t just protective; they were full-blown sentinels guarding the gates of hell.

And there was no goddamn escape hatch. No apps to swipe your failures away, no digital armor to protect your ego. You were exposed, raw and bleeding, stranded in the harsh fluorescent light of reality. You’d sit there, a monument to your own humiliation, drowning in the bitter cocktail of shame and regret.

If I’d had the choice back then, you can bet your ass I’d have taken the easy way out. But here’s the ugly truth, my friend: all this convenience comes with a price. The grit, the effort, the goddamn humanity of it all has been gutted, leaving behind a sterile, hollow shell.

Do you think covid 19 was never as bad as it got made out to be where we needed lockdowns and restrictions?

That means - you’ve got almost ZERO competition. You need to start trying. I’ve got dozens of videos with GenZ women complaining about you not trying. Extremely hot - Gen Z chicks.

These girls, they open up in ways you don’t see in “normal” dating.

Don’t put your loser negativity in the comment section.

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I’ve ridden this wave long enough to see a generational shift.

So, I dug in, peeled back the layers of this sociocultural onion, and yeah, I’ve figured it out. I know why men aren’t stepping up. And more importantly, I know how to fix it.

Right now, your natural instinct is to give me a “reason” why you can’t.

The Roman Empire at the time of Christ kept meticulous records. Why then, is there no record of the trial of Jesus?

Enter Gen Z, a new crop of frustrated souls, but the frustration is eerily familiar.

It’s an epidemic.

And now? Now, you just swipe left or right. No awkward calls. No interrogation from dad. No sweaty palms gripping the receiver like a lifeline. It’s all neat, sanitized, and gutless.

Teens like me, what are your expectations when entering adulthood?

Now, sugar dating? That’s a different beast. It’s refreshingly laid back—a strange, unspoken contract of mutual honesty and boundary-free conversation.

But as I listened more and started connecting dots, I realized this wasn’t just a hot-girl problem.

Save it for your incel group.

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As a 48-year-old Sugar Daddy, I’ve seen the battlefield from both trenches, and let me tell you—it’s a hell of a vantage point.

The only mercy was time—time to stew, time to replay every stumble, time to promise yourself you’d never be that stupid again. And then, inevitably, you’d do it all over.

They’d answer with a voice like gravel and demand to know your name, your intentions, your SAT score—hell, maybe even your blood type.

I see ugly guys dating gorgeous, "hot" women all the time. I, too, am not very attractive but I'm not doing well with the ladies. What's their secret?

Every word out of your mouth felt like a confession at gunpoint. You’d be sweating bullets, trying to sound like some paragon of virtue, knowing full well he was picturing you as the scumbag who’d ruin his daughter’s life.

If you’re serious about learning how to approach women, then, I’m here to help. Again, I am not selling anything, I don’t want your money - I’m good.

It sucked. It was a bloodsport—a gladiatorial brawl for your dignity where the odds were stacked against you, the crowd was jeering, and the lions were already licking their chops.

Do you think it is likely that Maegor was presented a young dragon at some point, almost to the point of full-bonding, only to scorn it for Balerion in the end? If so, which one could it have been?

For a solid decade, I was neck-deep in the pick-up artist scene. Yes, it works—and by "works," I mean becoming a swaggering, dopamine-addled caricature of a man. You learn the tricks, the lines, the rhythms of a social dance that’s as contrived as a daytime infomercial. But here’s the rub: it turns you into an unholy blend of desperation and bravado—a full-tilt douchebag with a veneer of charisma. Eventually, you start to hate your own reflection. That’s when I bailed.

Dropped out of the dating scene

First of all - I am not selling anything. I am not a “coach.” I don’t want your money. I’m good. I’ve got videos of me in my Lamborghini Huracan, and Ferrari California to prove it.

How can a man clean his Soul?

If you’ve got a reason for NOT approaching women - don’t watch my videos…

Virgins

he’d be the one to pick up.

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No, it was more like strapping on a blindfold, stepping into a minefield, and praying you didn’t explode into a million pathetic pieces.

And you would. Oh, you absolutely *would*.

Buckle up, because this is a cocktail of hard-earned wisdom, poor decisions, and a willingness to wade waist-deep into the absurdities of modern dating.

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her dad. If she lived at home—and most of them did back then

All of this is GOOD NEWS! It should seem obvious, but from your perspective, its not.

Forget the Hollywood fantasy of smirking Casanovas armed with killer one-liners and perfectly tousled hair under neon lights.

Did you ever receive genuine remarks from a medium regarding your deceased relative with information that the medium could never normally know?

Both groups—Millennials and Gen Z—are grumbling the same refrain:

I used to date Millennials until they hit the “expiration date.” The youngest Millennials are 29 now—aging out of the sugar scene and into therapy. (The more bitter ones will be in this answer’s comment section)

In the 90’s - you didn’t have a choice - cold approaching was just what you had to do.

My girlfriend told me that she wants to move in with me. I have my own apartment and I like my peace and quiet, but I also love her. We've been together for a year now. What should I do?

It’s a strange, paternalistic partnership, and God help me, I actually enjoy it.

If there are less guys approaching women - to the point where 50% of guys your age

First came the mental gymnastics of when to call.

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**guys don’t approach me!**

are either

Either way, the clock was ticking, and every passing second chipped away at your already tenuous grip on sanity.

What I am is a dude who’s actually concerned with this problem, and, I can help. For free.

I wasn’t suprised…The girls I date are stunners, the kind of women who turn sidewalks into catwalks. Of course guys don’t approach them. Guy’s DON’T approach dimes—they’re terrified.

I listen. I guide. Sometimes I protect.

But when you finally did muster the nerve to dial, you’d hit another goddamn wall:

They spill their secrets, their heartbreaks, their schemes, and their dreams.

That first "uh, hey" would leave your lips, shaky and desperate, and she’d glance at you like you were a stray dog begging for scraps.

In short - you’ve just got no game - but its not your fault.